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would you think its ok if your GF's bestfriend is her EX boyfriend?
#31
06-01-2006, 03:05 AM
RE: would you think its ok if your GF's bestfriend is her EX boyfriend?
i've had best friends like this before & she may not be cheating, but to hang out so often w/ the guy there could be another side of the relationship growing.....you can't forbid her, but do talk to the girl.
#32
06-01-2006, 06:44 AM
RE: would you think its ok if your GF's bestfriend is her EX boyfriend?
fact of the matter is, your not exactly happy with what she's doing, If she keeps doing this after you talk about it, you will know what is important to her. (not you) yeah, taht would suck, but untile then you don't realy know what shes thinking untile you talk with her about it.
#33
06-01-2006, 06:48 AM
RE: would you think its ok if your GF's bestfriend is her EX boyfriend?
hey traci where have u been, i though me might have lost ya
get shot of her she likes the attention and that's all
#36
06-01-2006, 03:54 PM
RE: would you think its ok if your GF's bestfriend is her EX boyfriend?
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hey traci where have u been, i though me might have lost ya
hey traci where have u been, i though me might have lost ya
#37
06-01-2006, 04:48 PM
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RE: would you think its ok if your GF's bestfriend is her EX boyfriend?
I've got two perspoectives:
1 - having BEEN that Ex bf/bestfriend a couple of times, in the past, I can tell you that no matter how "bestfriends" we were, I ALWAYS wanted`to hit it, again (and again, an again, an again...). With one I even DID go back and TAP it, whenever she was having trouble with her current b/f, or between b/f's. With teh other I respected her decision. Never touched it again. But, "our" relationship did cause problems with whomever she was dating, at any given time...
2 - If YOU were the other guy... Would YOU hit it? Or TRY to?
1 - having BEEN that Ex bf/bestfriend a couple of times, in the past, I can tell you that no matter how "bestfriends" we were, I ALWAYS wanted`to hit it, again (and again, an again, an again...). With one I even DID go back and TAP it, whenever she was having trouble with her current b/f, or between b/f's. With teh other I respected her decision. Never touched it again. But, "our" relationship did cause problems with whomever she was dating, at any given time...
2 - If YOU were the other guy... Would YOU hit it? Or TRY to?
#38
06-01-2006, 04:58 PM
RE: would you think its ok if your GF's bestfriend is her EX boyfriend?
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I've got two perspoectives:
1 - having BEEN that Ex bf/bestfriend a couple of times, in the past, I can tell you that no matter how "bestfriends" we were, I ALWAYS wanted`to hit it, again (and again, an again, an again...). With one I even DID go back and TAP it, whenever she was having trouble with her current b/f, or between b/f's. With teh other I respected her decision. Never touched it again. But, "our" relationship did cause problems with whomever she was dating, at any given time...
2 - If YOU were the other guy... Would YOU hit it? Or TRY to?
I've got two perspoectives:
1 - having BEEN that Ex bf/bestfriend a couple of times, in the past, I can tell you that no matter how "bestfriends" we were, I ALWAYS wanted`to hit it, again (and again, an again, an again...). With one I even DID go back and TAP it, whenever she was having trouble with her current b/f, or between b/f's. With teh other I respected her decision. Never touched it again. But, "our" relationship did cause problems with whomever she was dating, at any given time...
2 - If YOU were the other guy... Would YOU hit it? Or TRY to?
As subtle as a sledgehammer but true
#39
06-01-2006, 05:22 PM
RE: would you think its ok if your GF's bestfriend is her EX boyfriend?
very much agreed with awdaholics post... there is always that sort of awkward tension there..
And to be honest, I have not had a single girlfriend that there wasnt at least one "second chance" encounter. now granted if you know shes faithful, and wont do it.. then you dont have too much to be worried about, but its out there.
And to be honest, I have not had a single girlfriend that there wasnt at least one "second chance" encounter. now granted if you know shes faithful, and wont do it.. then you dont have too much to be worried about, but its out there.
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