Okay so this chick has been my best friend for about 2 months now. She has a crush on me and I think shes smokin hot and told her so many times... She has a boyfriend of 3 months who leaves for the military in 3 months around the same time I move back to Ohio because I graduate school here in Phoenix soon. She lives an hour away from me but I pick her up on the weekends to hangout and she stays over with me.

The problem is the boyfriend shes too attached to, her dad lost his job yesterday and they wont be able to afford the rent on their house soon, and her mom has an airplane ticket to Florida and she thinks her mom is leaving for good. They are basically going to be homeless and she hates her dad, he doesn't care about her at all. I really dont know what the do, I offered her a place to stay with me if she needs but she insists on staying at her boyfriends parents house while he goes to the military.... I dont know what to do at this point... any advice?

 

Uhh, do nothing until she's single. Not up to you to break up her relationship... if she wants you that much, and she's unhappy now, she'll do it herself.

 

Bingo.

 

thats what i figured. She always complains about the b/f yet still says shes happy with him... oh well I dont want to get myself into a complicated mess

 

Yup - I have to agree.

There are better fishes in the sea.

 

Leave it alone... Believe me, these problems will prolly leave an emotional scar that will bite you in the *** later down the road. You could just open up a whole can of emotional crap that you dont want.

 

this is thread is actually serious....

 

lololololol

 

clearly I cannot make fully functional sentences (lol)

 

I agree with the rest - leave it alone. If for no other reason, the current bf likely has many weapons and knows how to use them. Seriously though, no need to go lookin' for trouble - it'll find you soon enough.