Official AF Venting/Advice Thread
#41
11-21-2008, 10:16 PM
Lvl-65 Sorceress: 9,571-HP/7,796-EP
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i'm all for him getting with a girl he likes, but all she wants is a husband and father for her kids. i'd much rather see tt with a girl that first and formost wanted HIM.
my point is that even if he DOES like her....SHE'S IN IT FOR THE WRONG REASONS, and that's not good for tt!
if he cares for her, he should guide her as a friend.
#43
11-21-2008, 10:20 PM
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#44
11-21-2008, 10:25 PM
Why is that a bad idea? I don't understand why a girl can take birth control pills to avoid pregnancy, but the equivalent for a man is stupid? I don't get that concept. So if a man gets **** faced drunk and for some stupid *** reason he doesn't use a condom and the girl gets pregnant and decides to keep it....... "he's fuhked"! But if he gets the vasec. he's covering his *** and taking responsibility for his actions.
#45
11-21-2008, 10:29 PM
because pills work while girls take them, and when they stop, they can get knocked up. vasectomy is like, a 50% chance you're not shooting retarded sperm if they (after an expensive procedure) hook your pipes back up.
and anyway, why exactly, should i not have one?
and anyway, why exactly, should i not have one?
Last edited by achTTung; 11-21-2008 at 10:31 PM.
#47
11-21-2008, 10:31 PM
you can add me to that list.
Moved down to FL with the GF of over 4 years and just separated. She said she wasnt happy and never talked to me about it once. Breaks my heart that she would do such a thing. Im trying to work it out with her and give her some time and hope her being alone will help her realize what she has lost. Sucks when the one you wanted to spend the rest of your life with doesnt even give you the chance to work it out, and after 4+ years.
Moved down to FL with the GF of over 4 years and just separated. She said she wasnt happy and never talked to me about it once. Breaks my heart that she would do such a thing. Im trying to work it out with her and give her some time and hope her being alone will help her realize what she has lost. Sucks when the one you wanted to spend the rest of your life with doesnt even give you the chance to work it out, and after 4+ years.
#48
11-21-2008, 10:32 PM
Lvl-65 Sorceress: 9,571-HP/7,796-EP
Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: The other side of midnight.
Posts: 7,462
Why is that a bad idea? I don't understand why a girl can take birth control pills to avoid pregnancy, but the equivalent for a man is stupid? I don't get that concept. So if a man gets **** faced drunk and for some stupid *** reason he doesn't use a condom and the girl gets pregnant and decides to keep it....... "he's fuhked"! But if he gets the vasec. he's covering his *** and taking responsibility for his actions.
#49
11-21-2008, 10:33 PM
oh, and if your argument is that maybe someday I DO want to have kids.
The chances of that are about as good as someone terrified of spiders getting a goliath tarantula as a pet. its not gonna happen.
The chances of that are about as good as someone terrified of spiders getting a goliath tarantula as a pet. its not gonna happen.