my girlfriends mom calls us like 4 times a day
#13
11-05-2007, 05:23 PM
RE: my girlfriends mom calls us like 4 times a day
ORIGINAL: S4sweetee
lol....like the mega 50lb. can that you get from Cosco/Sam's!!
you're right to feel that way....but the important thing to remember is this: the ONLY one who can say bad things about her mother is HER. it totally backfires if you tell your gf your exact thoughts about her mom.
it really has to be her idea to tell her mom not to call so often. maybe ask that she not answer the phone every time it rings. i'm sure she feels it's her duty as a daughter to be there for her lonley mom, but she really needs to get a life of her own.
i'm not sure which one of these is the biggest breakup of relationships...but these are the top 3 for sure.
1. money
2. sex
3. IN-LAWS
if you talk with your gf and she sees that it's affecting the relationship...she should be willing to do what is necessary to fix the problem....cuz if you don't fix it, it gets bigger, and BIGGER and BIGGER.
ORIGINAL: new2me
Oh boy, You just opened yourself a can of worms there!
Oh boy, You just opened yourself a can of worms there!
you're right to feel that way....but the important thing to remember is this: the ONLY one who can say bad things about her mother is HER. it totally backfires if you tell your gf your exact thoughts about her mom.
it really has to be her idea to tell her mom not to call so often. maybe ask that she not answer the phone every time it rings. i'm sure she feels it's her duty as a daughter to be there for her lonley mom, but she really needs to get a life of her own.
i'm not sure which one of these is the biggest breakup of relationships...but these are the top 3 for sure.
1. money
2. sex
3. IN-LAWS
if you talk with your gf and she sees that it's affecting the relationship...she should be willing to do what is necessary to fix the problem....cuz if you don't fix it, it gets bigger, and BIGGER and BIGGER.
the 3rd one should be at the top there
#14
11-05-2007, 05:25 PM
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RE: my girlfriends mom calls us like 4 times a day
i meant to say...."in no particular order"
they're ALL bad in their own way!
they're ALL bad in their own way!
#15
11-05-2007, 05:25 PM
RE: my girlfriends mom calls us like 4 times a day
Get your girl's mom a cat or dog. That'll shut her up...for a minute.
If your girlfriend doesn't understand where you're coming from or seems defensive about the whole thing then maybe you should reevaulate the relationship.
If your girlfriend doesn't understand where you're coming from or seems defensive about the whole thing then maybe you should reevaulate the relationship.
#16
11-05-2007, 05:27 PM
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RE: my girlfriends mom calls us like 4 times a day
^^^^+1
really that's the truth.
if it's bothering YOU, then it's bothering US!
she needs to know you're feeling the mom has stepped in to be priority #1, instead of you.
not good.
really that's the truth.
if it's bothering YOU, then it's bothering US!
she needs to know you're feeling the mom has stepped in to be priority #1, instead of you.
not good.
#17
11-05-2007, 05:28 PM
RE: my girlfriends mom calls us like 4 times a day
ORIGINAL: railrunner
for the next two weeks, have a buddy call you every three hours every day and make sure you talk for at least 5-10 minutes each time. Let her wear the shoes for a little bit and watch what happens.
for the next two weeks, have a buddy call you every three hours every day and make sure you talk for at least 5-10 minutes each time. Let her wear the shoes for a little bit and watch what happens.
#18
11-05-2007, 05:28 PM
RE: my girlfriends mom calls us like 4 times a day
i wouldnt give up a relationship because her mother is calling... the relationship is about you and her... her mother is just getting in the way and if you really like her stay with her...
as for the mother... its how moms are... my brother died not too long ago and was engauged... my mom now calls his fiance, well ex-fiance i guess you should say, practically the same... it annoys me but its something i have learned to ignore...
do you know if the mom has lost something recently?
as for the mother... its how moms are... my brother died not too long ago and was engauged... my mom now calls his fiance, well ex-fiance i guess you should say, practically the same... it annoys me but its something i have learned to ignore...
do you know if the mom has lost something recently?
#19
11-05-2007, 05:31 PM
RE: my girlfriends mom calls us like 4 times a day
ORIGINAL: S4sweetee
i meant to say...."in no particular order"
they're ALL bad in their own way!
i meant to say...."in no particular order"
they're ALL bad in their own way!
#20
11-05-2007, 08:06 PM
RE: my girlfriends mom calls us like 4 times a day
and FOR GOD SAKES DONT LET YOUR GF SEE THE THREAD IN THIS FORUM!!!! some one in mitsu forum posted abt his gf problems she wound up seein the thread and they broke up