Keep your head up Bent, I hope everything works out for you.

 

things don't ALWAYS work out the way we WANT them to... but they always work out, one way or another[&:]

 

right on. Yeah it's a good point that this baby will need some good care from a second person if the mother is immature and brainless at times as it sounds. Maybe you could do some kind of seperation one week yours, one week hers deal? I dunno just a thought. Wouldnt work that way for the first ocuple of years, but after a while you might be able to manage it. Oh and srry about my immature comment earlier i couldn't help it

 

I would strongly consider being deeply involved in this childs life. You will more than likely be paying child support, you should take advantage of the "benefits". The child had no say in the yours and the mothers decision, yet you could have a huge impact on his/her life and character. You may not want to be involved right now, but look at it like this: In many situations, todays mistakes are tomorrows miracles. I think if you turn your back on it you may be happy now, but you will regret it later in life.