Man I feel EXACTLY the same way about pregnacy as you, however I just wanted to share that one of my best friends got a girl pregant and owned up to it and now has the cutest little 5 yr old girl ever. And he loves her to death. If it's yours, there's only one choice my friend...

 

ok, suppose i did decide to be a part of it's life (it's a boy, btw)....the mother is going to do everything she can to keep me away from him...she had a boyfriend for about a year, they broke up for about 4 months which is when we dated, then after all this BS they are getting back together. she loves him, she hates me. who do you think she'll pick to raise her kid?

 

Brian, now's a good time to call your father.
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I urge you (assuming you're the father) to be the adult here. Someone needs to, for the baby's sake.
From you posts, she doesn't sound too mature.
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Hadn't thought about adoption in my previous post, but it's good idea.
My two daughters are both adopted. I'd be glad to talk to you about it.

 

^^^Sounds like a class act guy,guys like this are great for this forum.

 

i wish it were up to me. if it were, the baby would absolutely be put up for adoption. i CAN NOT raise a child. she ABSOLUTELY cannot raise a child...neither of us are anywhere near ready, but that's her decision to make. like i said, we don't exactly get along well and she's not interested in hearing what i have to say.

 

Brian, how far along is she?

 

just because it was posted on a forum doesnt make this a game, we're talking about the course of someones life here.







BentFrame, I'm sorry to hear that this all happened. Does the mother want you to be a part of the child's life or not?

I'm not going to write a book, but instead just say one thing. What will the kid's life be like? It sounds like it's up to you. Good luck.






On a lighter note, you could just kick the bitch in the stomache (sry i had to say it, dont do that)

 

Game, what are you talking about? He gave good advice, the only advice you can come up with is to kick in the stomach,great advice to even think about.


Can you not read? The fam/mother are tickled to death shes pregant.

 

o boy, he doesnt need anyones critisism right now. just advice and support.

 

good man, yea people like do make our forum better