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#761
11-16-2005, 02:41 PM
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ORIGINAL: SlowWagon08
toff's pic makes me wonder what he's thinking about!
toff's pic makes me wonder what he's thinking about!
One handed photoshoot!
#763
11-16-2005, 03:07 PM
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a. getting married next october so there's plenty of time. i still love her. i'm just stressed about everything and not sure if it was the right thing to do. been lingering in my mind for awhile but hopefully i'll get through it.
q. what language does sadize mean sad eyes?
a. getting married next october so there's plenty of time. i still love her. i'm just stressed about everything and not sure if it was the right thing to do. been lingering in my mind for awhile but hopefully i'll get through it.
q. what language does sadize mean sad eyes?
q. how do you ever know its the right person?
#764
11-16-2005, 03:12 PM
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a. i have no clue. sometimes you just feel like this is the person you're meant to be with and i do feel like that but i just don't like how families get involved with the wedding process and try to take over. life is full of doubts. lately i just feel overwhemed by everything and felt like the walls were getting smaller around me.
q. i've been known to have sad eyes too in my life but unfortunately i've been called a lot worse than what you have. = ) were you the bully in school or were you the one being bullied?
q. i've been known to have sad eyes too in my life but unfortunately i've been called a lot worse than what you have. = ) were you the bully in school or were you the one being bullied?
#765
11-16-2005, 03:26 PM
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A: I was the neutral one. I was never "popular" but I was never picked on either. I couldn't have been happier.
Q: Can't you talk to her and then in turn talk to your families about the wedding? That's what my wife and I ended up doing. We made it clear that it was our wedding and we were going to do at our wedding what we wanted to. I mean of course you bring it up nicely, but the familes were understanding.
Q: Can't you talk to her and then in turn talk to your families about the wedding? That's what my wife and I ended up doing. We made it clear that it was our wedding and we were going to do at our wedding what we wanted to. I mean of course you bring it up nicely, but the familes were understanding.
#766
11-16-2005, 03:37 PM
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a. yeah with both very traditional vietnamese families they of course are stubborn and have to have their way. but i do want to talk to her about the whole thing. i just feel really bad because if it was to be called off, we'd lose a lot of money on everything that we reserved already. and i don't even know if it's the fact that i'm having doubts about her. i think it's more of me not knowing whats in store for us. its probably more fear than anything. and i really wish our families will be understanding but there's been a lot of drama lately but not wedding drama...just family drama...haha
q. when you got married is life really a lot easier? or was it harder?
q. when you got married is life really a lot easier? or was it harder?
#767
11-16-2005, 05:08 PM
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a. yeah with both very traditional vietnamese families they of course are stubborn and have to have their way. but i do want to talk to her about the whole thing. i just feel really bad because if it was to be called off, we'd lose a lot of money on everything that we reserved already. and i don't even know if it's the fact that i'm having doubts about her. i think it's more of me not knowing whats in store for us. its probably more fear than anything. and i really wish our families will be understanding but there's been a lot of drama lately but not wedding drama...just family drama...haha
q. when you got married is life really a lot easier? or was it harder?
a. yeah with both very traditional vietnamese families they of course are stubborn and have to have their way. but i do want to talk to her about the whole thing. i just feel really bad because if it was to be called off, we'd lose a lot of money on everything that we reserved already. and i don't even know if it's the fact that i'm having doubts about her. i think it's more of me not knowing whats in store for us. its probably more fear than anything. and i really wish our families will be understanding but there's been a lot of drama lately but not wedding drama...just family drama...haha
q. when you got married is life really a lot easier? or was it harder?
a: Both...getting married was a hassle...so life got easier afterwards...but then after awhile it gets back to normal. There is always some amount of work to keep a relationship good.
q: Are you absolutly in love with her?
#768
11-16-2005, 05:54 PM
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a. yep because i can't see myself being with anyone else. when i was single and dating, i couldn't see myself with the person i was dating at the time but with her i do.
q. Is love worth it if you feel like the future in-laws are driving you nuts half the time?
q. Is love worth it if you feel like the future in-laws are driving you nuts half the time?
#769
11-16-2005, 06:00 PM
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a. only if you aren't having to live with the in-laws. i know my friends from india & china live with the in-laws or at least extremely close.
q. how come white people don't seem to be as traditional or have as many customs?
q. how come white people don't seem to be as traditional or have as many customs?
#770
11-16-2005, 06:08 PM
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a. because they are mixed with a lot of different nationalities normally like irish, russian and so forth. thats what i think anyways.
q. i understand that tradition is important but why is it sooo important that they are willing to sacrifice the happiness of the couple getting married? like arranged marriages!! Why are people still doing that??
q. i understand that tradition is important but why is it sooo important that they are willing to sacrifice the happiness of the couple getting married? like arranged marriages!! Why are people still doing that??