Finaly its fixed!!! The problem with communicating with the ecu had somthing to do with the radio or the wires behind the radio. The shop said that if the radio isnt working properly on these cars it will mess up the whole system. I will find out more tomorrow but maybe somthing to do with the antitheft or the radio code? Once he scanned the ecu it showed a code for the crank sensor so I pulled the one of the bad engine and it started right up. All this over the d@mn crank sensor. I cant wait to drive it tomorrow.

Thank you all very much again for all the help.